Serendipity
So this morning I treated myself to a tall (small size) café mocha at Starbucks. There was the usually rush hour mob there and I ordered my drink and waited patiently for it to be prepared. Well some woman in front of me had ordered a tall mocha too so the first one to appear on the bar was claimed by her. No biggie. I waited some more and another tall mocha was made, but another woman almost immediately grabbed it and left. I was a little concerned as I had been waiting about 10 minutes and the second woman who just took that mocha had been behind me in line! I was a little irked but I figured I'd just politely ask the barista about how long it would be.
Well before I could the barista looked at me and said, "I'm just waiting for some more cream so I can do your mocha hon." I was surprised and happy about this news so I waited. A few minutes later she puts two venti (the largest size) mochas on the bar and tells me that one is mine.
I couldn't believe it. I had ordered and paid for a tall mocha and got a venti one instead! I wonder if that second woman who I think took my mocha had ordered a venti? Ah, well her loss and my good fortune. 
Though in not so serendipitous news I got IMed by F.O.B. again today. How I regret giving him my AIM Screen name. The conversation basically speaks for itself. Maybe this is why the universe gifted me with such a large coffee this morning...
NOTE: This conversation appears in most of its original unedited format. I have tried to add helpfull comments and explainations when possible.
| 10:09 AM |
| F.O.B. |
hi mike
how are you today |
| 10:40 AM |
| F.O.B. |
hello
mike |
| ME |
Hi
I was in a meeting
That is why i did not answer earlier |
| F.O.B. |
ok
meeting work right |
| ME |
yes
Very busy time of the year
So How are you? |
| F.O.B. |
hey i loos |
| ME |
how is school and work? |
| F.O.B. |
i start inglish class today 6 to 8 pm |
| ME |
Are you looking forward to it? |
| F.O.B. |
you have be my bf
you want be my bf
|
| ME |
No I do not |
| F.O.B. |
im romantic |
| ME |
yes I know. But I do not want to be your bf |
| F.O.B. |
im jerk |
| ME |
you and I do not fit. simple as that |
| F.O.B. |
what is fit |
| ME |
go together. match
we do not match |
| F.O.B. |
ok
i want be you friend |
| ME |
we can try to be friends
I think it will not work. We are too different |
| F.O.B. |
when i learn iglish that will be different |
| ME |
it will help but we are different people
not much in common |
| F.O.B. |
i need learn inglish for win your love
|
| ME |
no, you need to learn English so you can talk to people here more easily
I will never love you .
we are not right for each other |
| F.O.B. |
what do you want about man
|
| ME |
mature, sensitive, same mind set as me, hobbies and interests in common,
chemistry
It is a feeling you get about that person, not just things about them |
After that he stopped sending messages and after he logged off I decided to block him. It's better this way. He will never move on if he continues to have an avenue to pursue me through and I certainly will never get peace of mine if I don't cut the ties. I have done all that I can.
Though interestingly enough I met a nice gentleman tonight via F.O.B.'s online profile. Serendipity at work again. He apparently still has me on his buddy list and contacted this gentleman via a private message. The guy didn't want to talk to him (smart man!) after seeing his profile but saw me on F.O.B.'s buddy list, was intrigued, and dropped me a line. This all transpired Sunday actually but I just checked my messages tonight. We chatted online for a bit and on the phone and he sounds very nice. We are going to attempt a meeting (crosses his fingers in hopes this one won't stand him up) soon.
On an unrelated note I stopped at the DC branch of my gym tonight after work. This is the first time I have been in a month. I must say I am not entirely happy with the DC branch but the plus side is that my membership has only gone up $3 and now I have access to all the gyms in the tristate area. 
I took a Step II class tonight and ended up having to leave because I couldn't keep up. The instructor was good but went too fast and didn't do enough in the way of walking you through the routines like my previous instructor Lynette did (I miss her so much!). I got about halfway through before I finally just threw the towel in. I packed up my step and left. I wasn't the only one and I felt bad about it. But the class just wasn't right for me. This instructor is one of two who teach Step at my new gym so I will try her Step I class.
In the meantime I have e-mailed Lynette to see if she still does Saturday mornings at Reston. It's more of a drive and out of my way on the weekend but work it!
*Sigh* The lengths I go to, to get a quality work out.