So I Dated A Fuckwit
Well, my Birthday was very fun. My two friends at work, Jenn and Nina, took me to this Japanese restaurant called Konami. It was Oishii! (Delicious)
On Saturday I had a Birthday lunch with my friends. It was so much fun! I had a blast! Thanks everyone! I am getting copies of the pictures from Miriam soon, and I will post them on the site! 
In other news it has become glaringly obvious that my ex is a complete and total ass! So much for being "Mr. Wonderful." It was bad enough that he turned out to be this immature, direction-less prat, but now he's decided to snub me after saying that he wanted to remain friends!
I'm sure you're wondering what he did exactly that has made me so mad. I'll refrain from explicet detail and just list the top points:
- He was always paranoid that things wouldn't work out between us (surprise, surprise they didn't).
- He used to get really pissed off if he called me and couldn't get a hold of me (was afraid I was cheating), yet it was perfectly fine if I had to wait a day or even a week for him to call me back when I would page him!
- Despite his encouraging me to call him at work, when I did (which was very seldom) he would snap at me, abruptly telling me he can't talk, and then hang up.
- Whenever he called me from work I was lucky if he said "Hello" before suddenly going "I have to go!" and slamming the phone down!
- After a few weeks of dating, he became extremely critical of my life, claiming that it was a drag to stay in one place and build a career. This from the man who wanted to be a teacher one week and a circus clown the next!
- An open mouth, and a closed mind! He wasn't all that tolerant of opinions and perspectives that differed from his.
- Mind like a sieve! He had the worst memory problems, yet was always quick to jump all over me if I forgot something.
The final straw was my Birthday party. I invited him WEEKS ago (before we broke up even) to my Birthday party and he agreed to come and said he'd schedule the time off. Well apparently he forgot (a common habit of his) and he didn't bother to show up at all! Despite the fact I left him a voice mail A WEEK prior to the event giving him the designated location and time. He called me the night before but didn't leave a message. I only know he called because my phone said "1 Missed Call" and gave me the number, which was his work number.
My philosophy is that if he can't leave a message I am not calling him back to find out what he wants, especially if he's at work. Chances are he was probably calling to say something nasty about getting my message and that he has to work and needs at least 2 weeks advance notice (which I gave him!) in order to get the day off and why didn't I tell him sooner.
And there you have it. It has been over 2 weeks and not a peep out of him! I know I really shouldn't be putting this on the internet for all to read, but I HAVE HAD IT!!! I can't take the Fuckwittage anymore! I am sick and tired of his erratic behavior, flagrant insults, and his constantly trying to paint me as some villain who is out to get him! Yes people, I AM MAD and I AM BITTER!
In fact, due to my being so pissed off at him, this week's song is Shattered Glass. It doesn't fully sum up how I am feeling right now but it is the only song I found that came the closest.
